{"id":8191,"date":"2016-05-09T12:42:07","date_gmt":"2016-05-09T12:42:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/?page_id=8191"},"modified":"2016-05-10T10:57:30","modified_gmt":"2016-05-10T10:57:30","slug":"martins-story","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/martins-story\/","title":{"rendered":"Martin&#8217;s story"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Martin&#8217;s story<\/h1>\n<p>I was diagnosed with M.E in 1990 by a doctor in mid Wales.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Consultants<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I have seen various Neurologists over the years I&#8217;ve been ill.\u00a0 I had to wait 3 years for my initial appointment with the Neurologist in Carmarthenshire.\u00a0 None of the Neurologists had any idea about or knowledge of M.E, despite it being a neurological condition.<\/p>\n<p>I have seen a Rheumatologist about the pain I am in.\u00a0 He was rude and told me that I was imagining the pain!\u00a0 I have also been to a Pain Clinic as a one-off appointment.\u00a0 They wouldn&#8217;t treat my migraines because it would affect my M.E which I believe was good advice but I felt under pressure to go to the pain course at Bronllys, which I felt was inappropriate for me.\u00a0 After discussing it with the doctor further he eventually agreed with me that it would indeed be inappropriate.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Symptoms<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>My symptoms include leg pain and weakness, migraines and headaches, eye pain, noise and light sensitivity, insomnia, intolerance to many foods and medications, poor temperature control, poor cognitive function and short-term memory, feeling ill and toxic, fatigue and exhaustion, and low energy and stamina.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Effect on my life<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>ME pervades every area of my life.\u00a0 I never get a day off and have been ill, with a range of symptoms, for the past 25 years.\u00a0 People dismiss my condition and offer disbelief that it could be so bad for so long.\u00a0 I have been told by doctors that it&#8217;s now just &#8220;learned behaviour&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I spend endless days in bed with continual migraines and feel totally isolated as social activities are beyond my abilities.\u00a0 I can&#8217;t use a computer or social media and find television too tiring and painful to watch, and reading impossible. There cannot be many illnesses so life-limiting.\u00a0 I find the pain in my legs to be the most challenging.\u00a0 Nothing seems to help which, in turn, prevents me from sleeping.\u00a0 I feel desperation and anxiety on a daily basis and long for some intervention that will help.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>NHS &amp; ME<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>My experience of NHS attitudes towards ME is wholly negative.\u00a0 In the 25 years I have had ME, I have yet to meet a GP who understands the condition or believes in it. I was in hospital in 2013 as an inpatient and the doctors and surgeon had never heard of M.E.\u00a0 The nurse prompted them with a gesture and a wink, suggestive of a mental health condition.<\/p>\n<p>My GP calls it &#8220;that Chronic Fatigue thingy&#8221;.\u00a0 Having said that, my GP is supportive in areas with which she is familiar.\u00a0 She has tried me on different medications and referred me when I have asked for a referral.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Improvement in services is needed<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Proper diagnosis is key.\u00a0 If someone with ME improves with Graded Exercise or CBT then that, in itself, proves that their diagnosis was incorrect.<\/p>\n<p>The NHS could help by educating doctors, nurses and hospital staff about how debilitating the condition can be and not to encourage inappropriate treatment.<\/p>\n<p>We need suitably trained specialist nurses on an outreach basis &#8211; many people are too ill to access doctors in clinic.\u00a0 Many times I have been made worse trying to attend appointments.\u00a0 People with M.E routinely are dismissed, as they &#8220;don&#8217;t look ill&#8221; &#8211; a very unhelpful statement.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d like to know how long the NHS feels it is reasonable for someone to wait for an appropriate level of care and help with a serious chronic condition?\u00a0 Until there is proper, scientific biomedical research into ME this question will remain.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">back to: <a href=\"http:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/me-stories\/\">ME Stories<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Martin&#8217;s story I was diagnosed with M.E in 1990 by a doctor in mid Wales. Consultants I have seen various Neurologists over the years I&#8217;ve been ill.\u00a0 I had to wait 3 years for my initial appointment with the Neurologist &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/martins-story\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"onecolumn-page.php","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-8191","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/P5qkYK-287","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/8191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8191"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/8191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8232,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/8191\/revisions\/8232"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}