{"id":16284,"date":"2018-04-27T07:34:17","date_gmt":"2018-04-27T07:34:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/?p=16284"},"modified":"2018-04-27T07:37:28","modified_gmt":"2018-04-27T07:37:28","slug":"bedbound-cardiff-womans-heartbreak-after-illness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/bedbound-cardiff-womans-heartbreak-after-illness\/","title":{"rendered":"Bedbound Cardiff woman&#8217;s heartbreak after illness"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><strong>Mirror online<\/strong> news post, by Mark Smith &amp; Jamie Bullen, 26 April 2018: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/news\/uk-news\/bedbound-womans-heartbreak-after-illness-12429993\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bedbound woman&#8217;s heartbreak after illness &#8216;ruins&#8217; relationship with daughter &#8216;who only knows her as sick mum&#8217;<\/a><\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Carol Davis said her ME has &#8220;destroyed my life&#8221; after leaving her bedridden for more than 10 years and sometimes incapable of walking and talking<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A mum left bedridden for more than a decade has revealed how her illness has &#8220;ruined&#8221; her relationship with her daughter.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-16286 lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/CAROL_DAVIS_02-300x200.jpg?resize=300%2C200\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/CAROL_DAVIS_02.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/CAROL_DAVIS_02.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/CAROL_DAVIS_02.jpg?w=615&amp;ssl=1 615w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/200;\" \/>Carol Davis, 54, once enjoyed an active life filled with travelling, parties and regular shopping trips until she was struck down with myalgic encephalomyelitis, commonly known as ME.<\/p>\n<p>The former nursery manager claims the condition has &#8220;destroyed&#8221; her life, leaving her unable to leave her house and suffering from chronic fatigue bouts so severe she is unable to walk or talk, Wales Online reports.<\/p>\n<p>She also told how the illness had a devastating impact on her 24-year-old daughter, who she says has only ever known her as her &#8216;sick mum&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Carol, from Cardiff, said: \u201cIt has destroyed my life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u201cMy bed is like my office. I cannot cook for myself, change my bed, or do my own washing. My partner does everything for me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u201cI have packets of jellies and bananas by the side of my bed as I\u2019m too afraid to get out of bed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u201cI have not been outside my house since last summer.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8220;I used to love shopping in Cardiff city centre but I don\u2019t think I\u2019ve been there for 15 years.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carol said she experienced her first ME symptoms following the birth of her daughter in 1995.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u201cI contracted a virus in the hospital and I was in there for a few weeks.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">&#8220;After that I slept a lot of the time and the doctors thought I was experiencing postnatal depression.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u201cI kept going back to my GP as nothing was changing. I was tested for everything, including loads of different viruses, and they came to the conclusion that I had chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS).<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u201cBut there are differences between ME and CFS.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Carol is promoting the organisation Invest in ME which is running the campaign #haveacuppaforme to raise funds for ME research<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mirror.co.uk\/news\/uk-news\/bedbound-womans-heartbreak-after-illness-12429993\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read the full article<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mirror online news post, by Mark Smith &amp; Jamie Bullen, 26 April 2018: Bedbound woman&#8217;s heartbreak after illness &#8216;ruins&#8217; relationship with daughter &#8216;who only knows her as sick mum&#8217; Carol Davis said her ME has &#8220;destroyed my life&#8221; after leaving &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/bedbound-cardiff-womans-heartbreak-after-illness\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[4379],"class_list":["post-16284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news","tag-carol-davis"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5qkYK-4eE","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16284"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16284\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16288,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16284\/revisions\/16288"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wames.org.uk\/cms-english\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}